This is an extract I got from a friend of mine Nina Sari in which she wrote this an dI find it interesting to put it here for infor and sharing with all of you.

Love hurts so much because we allow it to hurt. It's human nature. Getting hurt is a part of life. It’s how you handle the hurt or how you allow it to affect you. When two people are in a relationship there are good times and bad times being in a relationship is a great feeling.

Knowing that you have a person that loves you is such a wonderful thing. But sometimes people put to much faith in other people and then when that person doesn't live up to the other person’s expectations then there are a huge amount of disappointment and hurt.

Why do we allow other people to control our emotions?A broken heart really is one of the worst feelings in the world. When you find out somebody that you love, somebody that you gave such a huge part of yourself to betrayed you, is indescribable. You feel this pain in the middle of your chest and it literally just aches. It hurts oh so bad! And then the tears and crying set in. opinion you do need to allow yourself to grieve.

You need to accept everything that has happened and then you just need to look inside yourself to find the courage and strength needed to move on. This is so much easier said than done. It is a part of life. One thing we have to learn is when one door closes three more usually open.

Everything happens for a reason. You must be strong and simply commit to yourself.

This is a beautiful story

An old American Muslim lived on a farm in the mountains of easternKentucky with his young grandson. Each morning Grandpa was up earlysitting at the kitchen table reading his Qur'an. His grandson wanted tobe just like him and tried to imitate him in every way he could. One daythe grandson asked, "Grandpa! I try to read the Qur'an just like you butI don't understand it, and what I do understand I forget as soon as Iclose the book.

What good does reading the Qur'an do?"The Grandfather quietly turned from putting coal in the stove andreplied, "Take this coal basket down to the river and bring me back a basket of water."The boy did as he was told, but all the water leaked out before he got back to the house. The grandfather laughed and said, "You'll have tomove a little faster next time," and sent him back to the river with thebasket to try again.

This time the boy ran faster, but again the basket was empty before he returned home. Out of breath, he told his grandfather that it was impossible to carry water in a basket, and he went to get a bucket instead. The old man said, "I don't want a bucketof water; I want a basket of water. You're just not trying hard enough,"and he went out the door to watch the boy try again.

At this point, the boy knew it was impossible, but he wanted to show hisgrandfather that even if he ran as fast as he could, the water would Leak out before he got back to the house. The boy again dipped thebasket into river and ran hard, but when he reached his grandfather thebasket was again empty. Out of breath, he said, "See Grandpa, it's useless!" "So you think it is useless?" The old man said, "Look at the basket."The boy looked at the basket and for the first time realized that the basket was different. It had been transformed from a dirty old coalbasket and was now clean, inside and out."Son, that's what happens when you read the Qur'an.

You might notunderstand or remember everything, but when you read it, you will be Changed, inside and out. That is the work of Allah in our lives."If you feel this is worth reading, please forward to yourcontacts/friends. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) says: "The one who guides togood will be rewarded equally"

This was sent to me by Nina Sari and I pen it down again to share with all of you.

we need to feel more .........to understand others

we need to love more .......to be loved back

we need to c ry more......to change ourselves

we need to laugh more........to enjoy ourselves

we need to see more.....other than our own little fantastics

we need to hear more ........and listen to the needs of others

we need to give more........and take less

we need to share more....... and own less

we need to look more.......and realize that we are not so different from one another

we need to create a world .......where all can peacefully livethe life they choose